500: Parenting Principles from Proverbs (Part 2): How to Be a Wise Mom

We are celebrating 500 episodes of Wire Talk and using this milestone to talk about something every mom wants: wisdom that actually works in real life. Today Karen breaks down what it means to be a wise mom, not a perfect one, and offers a simple grid for everyday moments by asking, “Will my response build my house or tear it down?” From discipline to independence, this conversation focuses on proactive parenting that shapes our kids over time.

Episode Recap:

Intro (00:00)

Wire Talk is celebrating 500 episodes - don’t miss our BIG GIVEAWAY (2:34)

A wise mom builds her house up in all she does (7:10)

Children are born with a sin nature (11:00)

Being intentional is hard work (14:31)

What is the difference between teaching, training, and discipline? (15:50)

Consistency builds trust (20:30)

Discipline sets your child up for success long term (23:40)

Listener question - how do I discipline my biter? (26:44)

Listener question - is it too late for me to disciple my child in faith? (29:39)

How do I discipline tantrums in public? (31:52)

I don’t know how to help my daughters solve sibling conflict… (33:30)

Scripture: Proverbs 14:1 (NIV) – “The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.”

Discussion Questions:

1. Karen’s guiding question is, “Will my response build my house or tear it down?” Where do you most need that filter right now? (Discipline, mornings, homework, sibling conflict, or marriage?)

2. Where do you tend to parent reactively, and what would it look like to be proactive instead?

3. How does remembering your child’s sin nature change both your expectations and your compassion?

4. Karen talks about how tearing down can show up in our words with kids or a spouse. Where do you need to shift from criticism to building up?

5. Which do you lean toward most: teaching, training, or disciplining, and which one do you tend to avoid? Why?

6. Where do you need to ask God for help right now, one specific area where you are asking Him to meet you with encouragement?

Resources:

- Check out our BRAND NEW Bible study: How To Teach Your Kids the Bible: boaw.mom/bible

- Listen to Wire Talk episode 1! https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/wt-001-how-do-i-overcome-mommy-guilt

- Grab Karen’s devotional book: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/products/copy-of-moments-with-god-for-moms-daily-devotional-faux-leather?variant=43432419492009