494: Helping Teens Grow Up: Boundaries, Phones & Real-Life Responsibility

Today Karen is tackling your questions about navigating the teenage years, from motivating strong-willed teens to handling independence, changing relationships, and the ever-present “that’s not fair!” Karen shares what worked in her home, including how to stay connected to strong-willed teens, helping boys who are pulling away, and parenting through the ever-changing norms of phones, jobs, and freedom.

Episode Recap:

You can be strict in the teen years and have great relationships with adult kids (4:00)

Give them a “no, because…” during the teen years (5:54)

How do I motivate my 15 year old to help out around home? (7:25)

Help! My 13 yr old thinks he knows everything! (11:37)

My teenage son is pulling away, I feel sad and rejected (15:35)

How do you handle keeping things “fair” during the teenage years? (18:40)

We have to remember our teens are growing up and that’s messy (22:01)

Scripture: James 1:5 (NIV)

“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.”

Discussion Questions: 

1. Where do you struggle most in balancing independence and safety with your teen?

2. Are you naturally stronger in boundaries or connection? What needs strengthening?

3. How does remembering your teen is still maturing affect your responses to them?

4. Who supports you during the teen years, and how can you invite more support?

Resources:

- Reach out to https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speak to have Karen come speak in your community!

- Join our private FB group, BOAW Moms: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms