526: [RE-AIR] How to Handle Big Emotions and Bigger Attitudes

From tantrums to name-calling to after-school meltdowns, this listener-favorite episode is packed with practical help for moms dealing with big emotions…and even bigger attitudes. Karen and Emily talk about red temperaments, ADHD outbursts, and how to handle disrespectful behavior without losing your cool. Listen in for advice on teaching kids to pause before reacting, role-playing tough situations, plus learn why setting boundaries with screens and school is worth the fight.

Episode Recap:

Intro (0:00)

Meltdowns can happen at 6 or 16 (2:10)

Lean into the Lord and He will help you (5:14)

What do I do about a 10 year old who dominates her friends all the time? (6:31)

Role playing is a powerful teaching tool (8:56)

My daughter resorts to name calling when she’s angry - any advice? (9:39)

Anger is a secondary emotion (18:00)

I’m struggling with the amount of screen time that is embedded in school/homework, it clearly changes my kid’s behavior. What can I do? (24:00)

Scripture for Reflection:

Proverbs 15:1 (NIV) — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”

Questions for Discussion:

1. How do you typically respond when your child is disrespectful or melts down?

2. What do you think is really behind your child’s anger in those moments?

3. What boundaries do you need to reinforce in your home around disrespect, screen time, or emotional outbursts?

4. How could role-playing or using tools like the feelings wheel help your child grow in emotional maturity?

Resources:

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- Listen to the rest of our conversation on WT+ boaw.mom/insider

Want More of This Conversation?

During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily talk about why so many parents are afraid to address disrespectful behavior and they discuss how to use devices intentionally so they serve your family instead of becoming a parenting crutch.

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